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        <title>Excuse Me Mr.</title>   
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         I&#39;m sure you&#39;ve all met people who have an &quot;good reason&quot; for why something is the way it is. Whether it is because their house is a mess, they haven&#39;t followed through on something they said they would, expectations were not met or just not showin...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <published>2009-12-23T21:02:12Z</published>
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          I get an email about once a week with tips of what to expect from the baby developmentally and parenting tips, etc. This week I got one with an article titled &quot;How to raise a happy baby and child.&quot; As I was reading through the tips I found myself...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Green Eggs and Ham</title>   
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        <published>2009-12-15T03:46:11Z</published>
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         My mom used to buy cases of oranges. Because there were so many it was almost always free reign when it came to the volume we were allowed to eat. Most often I would eat one and it would be amazing, quickly grab another only to soon realize that a...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Conditional Love</title>   
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        <published>2009-12-03T22:09:42Z</published>
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          I realized yesterday that there really is no such thing as unconditional love when it comes to relationships. I&#39;m not sure why I never really grasped it before, but experience in my professional and personal realms has been very interesting in th...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <published>2009-11-20T20:17:31Z</published>
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          In my Abnormal Behavior class my very first semester in graduate school we were warned that we would start seeing these &quot;disorders&quot; in ourselves and decide that we were something when we most likely weren&#39;t. Today, I was sitting with the Doctor w...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Two-Face</title>   
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        <published>2009-10-30T20:30:58Z</published>
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          I deal with a lot of different kinds of people. Some of them will make a very big deal about very small things. I received an e-mail &quot;reminder&quot; about a meeting concerning one of my clients. This was not a reminder and my schedule was full. Instea...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Fitness</title>   
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        <published>2009-10-26T15:19:22Z</published>
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          I meet with a variety of children and parents in my line of work. I have some parents that will admit all the things they are doing &quot;wrong&quot; and then correct these behaviors. There are others that will hide facts and even others that will claim to...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <published>2009-08-07T20:51:12Z</published>
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          There have been a lot of thoughts this past week. I finished reading Facing Codependence while I was in the middle of reading Crucial Confrontations. Reports on both of these books at a different time. I hope to finish the Confrontations book thi...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Assumptions</title>   
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        <published>2009-07-23T22:16:56Z</published>
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          There is a case I&#39;ve been working on for the past few months. At first it was two cases and now it is three because there is the one case, then the other case, and the fact that the two parents are dating. Not only are they dating, but the dad is...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Avoiding The Self</title>   
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        <published>2009-07-22T17:02:09Z</published>
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          In my work, I meet several people that appear, at best description, unmotivated for any positive thing in their lives. This is especially frustrating because my creativity in igniting that hope in others is dwindling, if it ever existed in the fi...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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